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Welcome!

歡迎你，小小傢伙！7天生日快樂！

謝謝所有關心我們的親友們！謝謝你們的愛和禮物 🥰

雖然沒有照計畫走，發生了許多事情，爸媽總算也能總算出獄，是出院，看到陽光真是恍如隔世，幸好一切平安。你雖然小小的，但是醫師說你很健康。

我們的生命就此永遠地改變，我想你的也是。也許你現在還不明白，不過以後你一定會懂的。

歡迎你的到來，承載著許多人的祝福，希望你平安、健康且快樂地長大！

爸媽都愛你，小小傢伙！

Time flies! It’s your 7th day. Happy one week!

The labor was long and hard, and nothing went according to plan. You arrived earlier than expected. I think it’s the first time I’ve stayed in the hospital for such a long time since I was a baby, and I believe the same goes for your dad. Perhaps that’s because I didn’t behave well towards my mom when I was born. When the doctor said we could be discharged, we finally felt relieved. The hospital staff are very knowledgeable and patient. They taught us many skills to take care of both you and me. However, as we finally saw the sunlight on our way home, we still felt like we were leaving jail.

We’re happy that you’re healthy. With the love from those who care about us, may you grow up safely, healthily and happily. Thank you for everyone’s love and gifts!

Welcome to our life. Our lives have changed, and they will never be the same. Yours has also changed. You may not understand now, but you will in the future.

Dad and Mom love you, little one.

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Congratulations!

One of my favorite movies “Good Will Hunting”
“People call these things “imperfections,” but they’re not. That’s the good stuff. And then we get to choose who we let into our weird little worlds.”

I want to say congratulations to two of my friends. One friend can finally graduate! The other one is now a father!

Those two friends will now have a new chapter in their life. Graduating from a master’s program is not easy, although every graduation is not easy. However, after seeing how he suffered and also suffering the same thing myself, I can appreciate how he feels. I am very glad for him, and really hope I am next in line to graduate. It will be a little boring when having our weekly status meeting without him, because we always sat at the same table. It will be a little sad that there will be one less person that can’t relate to our troubles in the program. Even so, I’m still very glad that he can fly away, out of the horrible loop. We have the right to chase what we really want in our life. Life should keep going, and I believe every one should try to get their own happiness. I know our friendship will continue, although we will be in different places in the future.

My other friend is a busy father now. Why this is special? Although other friends of mine are already fathers, I’m glad for him because I know he was worried about being a father before. Now it seems he is finally ready for this new role, or at least he can be brave and prove that he can be a good father. It’s not easy to keep in touch with your friends, especially when in different countries. We have different environments, but he remembers to share his important things in his life with me. I cherish this friendship too, and I believe he will be a good father. No one knows how to be a perfect parent, but we are willing to try and do our best. I wish that he can build his own sweet and warm family. The place we all call home.

Congratulations again, my friends! Although I don’t know if you will read this post, I want to say well done! Keep going in your own life, and when you need a true friend to talk to, you can always call my name.